Aubry Blabbin'

Aubry wakes up cute

Here is our daughter waking up and stretching.

One Month Old Today

Big Sister Blues

Nalah has been a sad puppy since we came home from the hospital with baby Bree. Nalah has been hiding under chairs and moping around not playing with any of her toys for weeks (even peeing every now and then where she's not supposed to go). Finally, this past week, Nalah (although still more behaved and quiet than usual) has been a much happier dog. Don't know quite what it was that snapped her out of her depression; I guess she finally decided that her little sister was here to stay. Nalah still doesn't have Aubry figured out yet but she's figured out that her place is different now.

Proud Parents and Grandparents

Bree's parents and both sets of grandparents are proud. Rick went home on Thursday (the day after we came home from the hopital after extending his ticket for Aubry's late arrival) and Cindy is leaving us on Monday. She will be sorely missed and has been a great help these first two weeks. Matt's parents are here with us on the webcam every night and are just as excited. They will get to see her for the first time in October when we come home for Spencer's wedding. It was good to finally get home from the hospital. Aubry likes her new room. There are lots of things for her to look at and she has lots of cute things to wear thanks to all of our friends, family and church family from home.

Aubry Nicole Mabery

Scariest Moment of Our Live

On Tuesday morning we had quite a scare. The nurse was in the room giving her a bath and Aubry all of a sudden stopped breathing. The nurses reacted quickly and were in our room (as was also the pediatrician) a good 15 minutes working on her while she was having trouble, giving her oxygen and trying to drain her airways with tubes. There were a few seconds where Aubry had turned completely blue and all Matt and I could do was hold hands and cry and watch. This is a picture of Aubry in the critical care baby unit where Mary had to go back and forth to feed her all day. Baby and Mom were both tired and very sore by the end of that day but both were doing fine and allowed to go home the next day. All tests on Bree came out fine. They never figured out the cause of Aubry’s incident but the best guess is that it was from milk coming the wrong way after being upset from the bath. This picture is of baby Bree holding Dad's hand.

Giving birth in Brazil

Mary Virginia was in labor for 19 hours before the doctor decided she needed to have a C-section because the baby was not dropping. In Brazil 94% of babies born are born cesarean. And although Mary Virginia wanted to have the baby normally, Brazil is probably the best place for a cesarean. It seemed like Aubry would come down and then go back up again. Cindy had had the same thing happen with Mary Virginia. Like mother like daughter. At 11:55pm on Sunday night August 12th(Father’s Day in Brazil), Aubry Nicole Mabery was born. Cindy and Rick and Randy Porter (their translator) got to see the whole operation from a window where they took lots of pictures. Cindy’s favorite picture is of the nurse presenting Aubry to Mary Virginia for the first time with Matt watching over them. Aubry, also known as baby “Bree” is beautiful and soooo sweet! Can’t wait for you to meet her!

Mary big and round

As per request here is Mary fat and beaming. We're doing fine. We'll keep you posted. Here, Mary is 40 weeks.

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No News

Sometimes no news is not good news. I wish I had more to tell you. We are still waiting. 40 1/2 weeks and counting.

4D US of Baby Mabery

4D US of Baby Mabery
Originally uploaded by Brazilian Tempo

We had our final ultrasound on Thursday. Everything looked very good. The baby is in position and is getting ready to head out sometime between now and August 15 according to the ultrasound doctor.

Baby Mabery

Baby Mabery is doing fine. She is still moving a lot. The doctor said Mary Virginia should still be on “rest” but not “complete bedrest.” So after 6 weeks of being confined to the bed, she has now been able to get up more and even go out some. Mary Virginia started her ninth month on June 27th. Thank you for all of your prayers and e-mails during this time.

Three Baptisms In June

The month of June has been packed full of excitement! On June 1st Ana Maria (a Senhora with 3 grown children and a work collegue of one of our members) was baptized. After she and Matt came out of the water of our downstairs pool, she walked over to her husband and said, “Don’t you want to do it too?” He did not appear to be very open to talking to us about her decision or about studying the Bible himself but last week he participated in his first Bible study and even teared up during part of it. Please pray for this couple and their family as Matt continues to study with them.
Kathryn Player, an Auburn student staying with us during the campaign was reading the Bible in English with a 21 year old girl named Clerlhan. Kathryn brought her home for lunch after church and Mary Virginia studied about baptism with her in Portuguese to allow her to make this heart decision in her heart language. God had been preparing Clerlhan for a long time and she was more than ready to be baptized into Christ. Clerlhan cannot swim but she had no fear from all of the excitement (and it helped that Russell assured her he was also a lifeguard)! It was our first nightime baptism in the ocean near our church!
Another first this month was our first Amerian baptism. One of the Auburn students who came, Whitney Jay (from Florida), was baptized last Wednesday afternoon, June 27th. Whitney had been ready for a long time as well and believed all that she was reading with the Brazilians; so we are happy that she made the commitment in the presence of all her readers and our Brazilian youth!

Health

Many of you have been asking and wondering about baby Mabery and Mom. First I want to thank you for your concerns and prayers. Our little girl is doing very well and moving all the time. I had injections last week to speed up the development of her lungs in case she comes early. The doctor says that my amniotic fluid is back up and she thinks that I am out of the woods for now. However, I am still on bed rest at least until my next appointment on June 14th and having occasional pains. Again, thank you for praying for our family. God bless yours as well!

English Conversation Campaign

The two week LST campaign from Auburn (5 Alabama girls and 1 North Carolina girl) was a success. Because of their hard work and advertising, we now have 60 Brazilians reading the Bible with the 6 week team. The 6 week team, a group of 8 guy and girl Auburn students, arrived middle of this week and have already begun their Bible studies today. We miss the two week team but are having fun getting to know the 6 week team as well. Pray that more Brazilians will hear about the program, come and bring their friends this first week as there is still space for at least 40 more Brazilians to read the Bible one-on-one with these hard-working Auburn students. May God open the hearts of those who are coming to our church to open up His word and learn about Him.

Mother’s Day

We had 72 on Mother’s Day for the breakfast and special service. Some of the English students even came and brought their mothers. The members came early to help with the breakfast and many of the visitors came even earlier! I heard my husband did a great job preaching on the love of God. His introduction included a slide show behind him of all different kinds of mothers and their young (a collection of funny mother/ child animal pictures). All the men of the congregation stood up and prayed over all of the women at one point in the service and during children’s time the kids took flowers to the special women in their lives. It was a blessed day! Thank you Lord.

Vacations: Voluntary and Mandatory

Matt and I were able to take three days of vacation time last week – our last trip together as a couple without kids. We went to the Chapada Diamontina (Diamond Table Mountain) about 5 ½ hours drive away. We stayed in a town called Lencois that was built in the 1800’s as a diamond mining town. The nature is absolutely beautiful there. The town is all about eco-tourism now full of tour companies and hostels. Matt and I stayed in a place located right beside a large waterfall. You could hear the calming noise of the waterfall all over the hotel even with the doors and windows closed. We went hiking, spelunking, snorkling, canoing, swimming and then hiking again. We saw 7 famous waterfalls, snorkled in a blue grotto cave, and canoed through anaconda waters. We even met an old man walking through the wild with a machete and potatoe sack who had mined the area when he was a boy. He hid his possessions under some rocks and took us around telling us intriguing stories about the old days (this was the day I over did it) guiding us to his favorite tunnels and waterfalls.
Even though the trip was great for my nature loving soul and for our marriage, it wasn’t so great for my body. I started having strange pains the day we drove home (last Friday). By yesterday, the pains had gotten considerably worse even though I’ve been taking it easy all week (the doctor had put me on bedrest since Monday) and I was also loosing more fluid than normal. So we had to go to the hospital yesterday for an emergency ultrasound. They determined that I have an infection on top of the over-extended muscle pain and probably some initial contractions. My fluid is lower than ideal but not dangerously so. It’s been a bit of a scary week but the baby has been moving the entire time which was reassuring and my bedrest should only be temporary – another week or so. Pray for the health and safety of our little girl even when Mommy doesn’t know her limits yet. Pray for Matt as he waits on his wife who can’t leave the bed. Pray also that the Bible studies I am missing will still be able to start back up again in a week or two where we left off and that the Spirit will continue to work on their hearts during the break.

A Month of Blessings

Thank you Pre-teens for our Nursury Items!
We had several children and two babies this past Sunday who got to enjoy the new toys, gifts, chairs and crib items that our Riverchase Children’s Ministry sent to our church (by way of Dewayne Spivey, Ron Jackson and Carol Echols). Thank you to Tony and to all who contributed to our nursury / children’s room. Your gifts have really helped to make it a more inviting place for our little ones. We appreciate all that God has provided for our children at church so that they feel His love and so that all of our visiting families feel welcome too.

Meditating on Our Church History Together
Many of you know that April 1st was our 1 year anniversary. Throughout the month of April we have had a special presentation each Sunday of the firsts God has blessed us with over this past year. April 8th we presented our 6 new baptisms from this first year, April 15th, were our two new married couples, April 22nd, we gave thanks to God for the two baby births, and April 29th, we had a special blessing over all of our new members from this first year. Each week we committed as a church to care for the people in these categories of transition. God has blessed us in many ways and we are glad that we could take this whole month of rememberance to thank Him and encourage our church to reflect on His goodness to us.

Youth Movie Night
We had a great turn out for youth movie night at the building. We watched the movie Signs and all the teens wore foil on their heads during the movie (if you haven’t seen the movie, this is so the aliens would not read their minds). We also had glasses of water set up all around the room and a baby monitor in the front by the screen making strange noises every so often. After the movie we had small group discussions about the importance of faith in God and faith stations set up around the room to demonstrate how we put our faith and trust in God. We had about 20 youth total with even some of our English students participating! Praise God for a great night!

Women’s Spiritual Disciplines Class
The women of the church are having a spiritual disciplines class once a month after service and lunch together. April 29th was Mary Virginia’s turn to teach. There were over 20 Brazilian women who participated and all were given a journal with activites to do during the next month. These ladies left greatly encouraged to spend quiet time with God meditating and reflecting on His Word, His Creation and their personal relationships with Him. All the women are looking forward to the next meeting at the end of May when Jennifer leads the class on Prayer.

Evangelism Day
This day came about as a suggestion by one of our Brazilian Christians, Veronica. She wanted to get a group together from our church to go door knocking and advertise our Mother’s Day service. (Here Mother’s Day is the biggest church day of the year like Christmas is in the States.) So, that’s exactly what we did. Our group of 12 (10 Brazilians and 2 missionaries) split up and went door to door in the two neighborhoods near our church asking people if they wanted us to pray with them. Many people were receptive to the idea of prayer. The second thing we did was bless the person or family with a scripture about God’s love for them explaining that this is why we came by today. We then gave the invitation to our Mother’s Day breakfast and special service this coming Sunday. Please, pray that God will open the hearts of those who were invited and thank God for the encouragement that He gave to our Brazilian members through this experience of sharing their faith. There is much happening in our little church right now and we thank you for remembering us in your prayers. We pray for all the Mother’s at Riverchase, Flat River, Cullman and Cox Boulevard and ask that you continue to take care of Cindy Sirmon and Glenda Mabery for us!

You live, you learn

What do you do when you think you've helped someone leave a life on the streets for a life that seemed better, and then that someone (or in this case group of someones) left the life that seemed better for the life that was more familiar?

What I am doing now is learning from the mistakes that were made. Let's say a family, with a small child of around 2 years old is living on the streets, and is at time being assaulted from time to time and being robbed of the few worldly possessions they do have. One day, when your church is showing a movie for the purpose of having a deep discussion afterward, this family walks in the doors. Really only the husband/father walks all the way in because the wife/mother is so embarrassed about her appearance, she will not come in to be around all the people who sleep under roofs and take showers at least once a day (for Brazilians this shower thing could reach in the double digits).

So, say you help this family have the means to make money enough to rent a small house, and you find them a place, with the help of some other members of your church. And for a while they are happy and content and are moving in and enjoying being able to provide for themselves and their baby. They work on getting the child into a nursery school. It takes a long time, but the child is eventually able to stay at the school a whole day without pitching a fit (remember, the child has not been away from her parents on the street at all her whole life). So, things seem to be going well.

Then, you hear they want to switch jobs. They can make more money doing something else. They switch. It isn't successful. They don't want to go back to the old job. They find another job and are doing pretty well. Then all of a sudden they move out. You hear lots of stories, two or three from the couple themselves. The house was leaky; rain got in. There were ticks crawling all over the place and were biting our daughter. They kicked us out. We had medical expenses and could not afford rent. You never really hear the same story twice in a row, and you hear from the owner that they just packed up and left. Nevertheless, they are back living on the street. They find another place to rent, but it is more expensive. They ask for help again. They quit working for a couple of weeks. They ask for help again. Knowing that it will probably end up the same way do you give them a months rent for the new place? Do you tell them no and encourage them to work to get into the new place on their own, knowing that they can't manage money well enough to do that?

This is really just a tip of the iceburg kind of story telling. It is really happening, though. This man is very open to studying scripture with anyone who will open a Bible and sit down for some time with him. Pretty interesting. What I hope is that enough time can be given to this family to teach them to take care of a rented house and maybe help train them to be able to manage their lives well enough to get off the street for good. Living on the street can be just as much an adiction as drugs and alcohol, or so it seems.

Visitor

Mary's mom arrived safe and sound on Sunday. She brought a ton of baby things, and that's about it. I don't see how she could have had anything else in her suitcases.

She and Mary are getting the baby's nursery ready. That is the purpose of this, her fourth trip to Brazil. She is now tied with the number of trips Mary has made to Brazil, and they are both ahead of me by one.

They got a lot done yesterday. I am a little aprehensive about this, because there are so many changes going on to the room I used to be able to relax in. Oh, well. The life of a father, right?